Naomi has been growing up so much lately, in all these subtle ways - more talking, her imagination, how much she plays and does with us around the house. But, she hit a big milestone this past weekend, by giving up her pacifier.
I was super nervous about it, because she was very attached to it during sleeping times, and I am not ready to give up naptime! She wanted it other times, but we had limited it to naps and bedtime. Occasionally we'd tried naptime with out it, and it was a disaster.
But the weekend before I found a book called Pacifiers are not Forever, and she really liked it. It talked about being a big girl, that she could give it up, and gave some ideas of all the things you can do without a pacifier. We read the book for a week together, and talked about it. We picked a day to give it up, when we'd all be home together, and said goodbye. She was upset when she actually had to, but at bedtime and naptime the next days she only asked for it once. And she has occasionally since (and once tonight when she was really sad), but we just tell her that she gave it up, and she is big, and she says, "oh. yeah." With a smile. I am so proud of her!